Millions of women imagine themselves pro shrinks or even self-made guru and think they can shape a man’s character through the years. But, God, they have forgotten this old wisdom: ‘If you want to change the world, start with yourself’, which is valid for relationships as well.
Ladies, YOU CANNOT CHANGE A GUY (as long as HE doesn’t want to)! Therefore, you gotta be vigilant while choosing the One. So here are the most fatal man choices you can ever make:
A player
When he goes trawling for women, it takes him merely a few hours to set the net for the potential sportfish. He’s Mister Perfect, smart, handsome, and… ever-ready to dive into a new bed.
Be aware of the risk attached: at first glance, you might confuse a womanizer with a ‘good guy’ but he’s far from that caring type. He’s going to leave you lying on the cold bathroom floor with some doze of salty liquid on your lashes, Ladies. So I suggest water-proof mascara.
When you’re young and naïve, it’s forgivable to fall under the Player’s charms. But as long as you get older (not old!), you have to be extremely careful about this type. Let me give you some tips on how to define ‘hunters’.
Be aware of the dog: they look totally innocent at first sight. However, it is possible to identify them if you check them out. These guys do not just look after themselves; they pay a hell of attention to their appearance, ranging from their outfit to a hairstyle. So don’t hesitate to say ‘No‘ to a guy with a fresh-made manicure (unless he’s an ordinary gay and you are in need of a new friend).
A carer
He’s always out there for you, cute and playful, with a warm-hearted smile on his lips and a charming look on his face. He’s all about help and support: ‘Are you okay, Honey? Headache? Oh, it’s your back! Let me give you a massage, Sweetheart’ and it goes on like this till the very moment when you feel overwhelmed by his kindness and attention.
The only thing missing in this relationship will be the adventure because he is too cautious to take any risks. This guy can help you study for an exam; he can save some money for you if you like to splurge on once in a while. A ‘carer’ will even do some grocery shopping for you. He’ll take you hiking or camping.
This man loves natural beauties and cares about pets. He’ll be the one watering your plants or walking out your dog when you are out of town.
On top of that, he’s a good cleaner and a skillful cook. Yes, he can make almost any dish you ever desired to taste. Doesn’t that sound like a perfect guy?
A good guy
He’s always there for you, safe and sound. He is sometimes handsome but you can’t find even a hint of danger in his personality. That’s why for some of you, ladies, this type might seem a bit boring if not dull at all.
‘A good guy’ is ideally suited for the meticulous ladies obsessed with order and accuracy as well as for the girls seeking for a ‘soul mate’ in their relationship.
If you recognize your boy in this depiction, I should congratulate you on a catch as this man is definitely a keeper!
The only thing you should avoid here is being too needy around him – it’s a no-brainer that a naturally good guy just can’t say “No” to your requests. But be careful, Girl: don’t eat it all at once, leave some for later (nobody knows what could happen in case you took all the energy resources from him).
Poor thing
This man’s too soft and flexible to handle life hardships, but solid businesswomen with a strong personality might feel quite comfortable by his side.
I strongly recommend checking his earnings before you get too involved unless you are not thinking of becoming his ‘mommy’. Unfortunately, most of the ‘poor things’ get less-than-average salaries. In the worst scenario, they are hardly supported by their mothers or sisters. So be extremely cautious about the ‘poor thing’ types as they are pretty tricky.
Mr. Jealous
Oh, that guy is one of my favorites. In times when his face doesn’t look like a plum thanks to him being jealous of your cousin, colleague, or even work, he is usually a natural-born leader. But I would undoubtedly treat this quality for a bottle of good pomegranate wine.
I wish I had known better when I was 16. Cause one of my boyfriends was exactly this type, a real Otello-like, always ready to burst out and lose his already hot temper.
Apart from being jealous, these bastards are generally real kings of suspicion – they sometimes act like they are private investigators shoving their noses into your Facebook, Whatsapp and other messengers altogether.
So, here the question comes, gals:
Which type do you think is the best to marry?
Certainly, not a player. (Yeah, wipe off your mouth, ladies! This one is for playing only – hence the name).
A good guy? A poor thing?..
Tell you what – none of them and all of them, as there is NO right answer. Each of you has probably been psychologically traumatized in your own way, so you may find that one of these types just fits you more than others. Therefore, you are likely to turn a blind eye on his flaws and shortcomings.
Let me know if you have ever dated such men types. What do you think about all this?
Would really appreciate your ideas in the comments…)
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